My girlfriend walked out of my flat last month, taking all of her stuff with her and saying it was over. A few days later, she came to her senses and said it was a mistake and was sorry etc, so i forgave her and we got back together (I even drove from Yorkshire to Glasgow to allow the make-up to take place)
However, in those few days, a fit young lass that lives next door to me made a pass at me (which i turned down) and i was fucking STUPID enough to be honest about it to my girlfriend, for the sake of transparency.
She just can't let it go. I get on real well with all my neighbours, we all socialise like a little community, so i'm always (completely innocently) around this girl.
The missus just can't accept it and is treating me like a fucking love-rat or something. All she does all the time is call this girl (who is my friend) an untrustworthy bitch and tells me that she trusts me 100% but doesnt trust this girl (which is apparently different??!) and doesn't want me to be around her. It's killing our relationship and i haven't even had my end away to at least have the benefit of being made to feel like a twat! She can get to fuck!!!
Never, ever, EVER reveal these things. Whether your partner trusts you or not it will play on their mind. There's no reason to reveal such info that really isn't of importance. Mentioning it gives it importance in their mind.
My other half tells me when some bloke hits on her. It doesn't bother me in the slightest, but I'm not sure how she would feel if I told her girls have hit on me. She would probably be cool about it, but given my past experience in other relations with being open about these things and it only causing problems, I won't mention any of it to her. I don't respond and it has and will never go anywhere. I'm utterly loyal, but would only bring it up if it was causing a problem (making me feel uncomfortable), but even then it should never get to that stage if you don't respond.
Edited by FWB at 00:53:11 20-08-2012