I guess its like being an arsenal fan over the last 10 years, and teams like stoke coming to the emirates and parking the bus, and we pepper the goal with shots which hit the woodwork, keeper makes amazing saves etc etc and then the other team breaks away and scores a goal with their one shot on target.
They also didn't score as many goals as we did, which is always going to be an issue.
they hit the woodwork three times and had at least 2 definite pens as far as i could see
thats bad luck and poor finishing.
deep down you know that the other team are a load of shit and you were unlucky, but unfortunately you don't get points for bad luck.
i guess what i'm saying is, united are far from fucked, and spurs are far from good based on the result in one game.