Only the blood of an innocent will cure your curse zom. As long as it's in the calendar month of september.
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Deckard1 19,079 posts
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Lukus 18,756 posts
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Registered 8 years agosport wrote:
@Orrah ? Good idea.
I think we need Orrah to pop in and add fuel to the fire.Paintings & Photographs
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Lukus 18,756 posts
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Registered 8 years agoAargh. wrote:
This entirely. Relationships of at least a week you say? Yeah, they're not relationships dude. They owe you nothing.
It doesn't count as cheating on you when all you had is one date and after 10 minutes they told you to never contact them again. Them then going on to have a happy relationship with you standing outside their window watching them playing with their children they've had several years later isn't acceptable behaviour.Paintings & Photographs
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Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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Registered 9 years agoLukus wrote:
Figure of speech. At least two months, that any better? And I don't recall saying anyone owed me anything, I wasn't talking about them, I was talking about me.Aargh. wrote:
This entirely. Relationships of at least a week you say? Yeah, they're not relationships dude. They owe you nothing.
It doesn't count as cheating on you when all you had is one date and after 10 minutes they told you to never contact them again. Them then going on to have a happy relationship with you standing outside their window watching them playing with their children they've had several years later isn't acceptable behaviour.
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glaeken 10,426 posts
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Registered 8 years agoI think Zom's problem is they come across as desperate and a bit mental and that is just via the medium of text. Face to face I can only imagine the effect is amplified.
So you need to stop being desperate and mental.
Have you thought about using prostitutes? You could maybe shag the desperation out of yourself with meaningless paid for sex?
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Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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Registered 9 years agoglaeken wrote:
I haven't been desperate for ages. Yes, I was, for a long time, which as you say probably paid a large part in getting so many very needy girls. For about a year now I've been fairly carefree and enjoying single life instead of panicking I would never find anyone, which is probably how I was able to end up with a really great girl. It was just the mental kicking in that was the problem. I know I've been very desperate on here before but not for a good long while, it's just the slight tendency towards insanity that's the issue.
I think Zom's problem is they come across as desperate and a bit mental and that is just via the medium of text. Face to face I can only imagine the effect is amplified.
So you need to stop being desperate and mental.
Have you thought about using prostitutes? You could maybe shag the desperation out of yourself with meaningless paid for sex?
As for the mental that is more tricky. Maybe if it's not offset by desperation it won't be quite so bad. -
Lukus 18,756 posts
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Registered 8 years agoZomoniac wrote:
Ok, then my advice is basically 'calm down you loon'.Lukus wrote:
Figure of speech. At least two months, that any better? And I don't recall saying anyone owed me anything, I wasn't talking about them, I was talking about me.Aargh. wrote:
This entirely. Relationships of at least a week you say? Yeah, they're not relationships dude. They owe you nothing.
It doesn't count as cheating on you when all you had is one date and after 10 minutes they told you to never contact them again. Them then going on to have a happy relationship with you standing outside their window watching them playing with their children they've had several years later isn't acceptable behaviour.Paintings & Photographs
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Aargh. 11,342 posts
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Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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Registered 9 years agoAargh. wrote:
None taken. Can't agree though. Psycopathy would suggest no emotions, no feelings of fear or guilt, which is pretty much the polar opposite to me. It's the overwhelming fear that's my problem, not a lack of it.
I think the problem is that he's a psychopath.
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Graveland 875 posts
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Registered 3 years agoIt's women that are mental. My first relationship ended with the girl cheating on me, even though I was a genuinely nice guy. It turned me into a bitter, twisted uncaring person. The strange thing is that every relationship I've had since I've been a right cunt (dumping a girl on the day of her relative's funeral so I could move in with another girl, cheating on an ex and then telling her to let me sleep all day because I was knackered from the night before with the other girl etc) and do you know what? The girls think it's all their fault! It seems the worse I behave, the more they wanted me. It's given me a very low opinion of women, to be honest."If I cast my eyes before me, what an
Infinite space in which I do not exist;
And if I look behind me, what a terrible
Procession of years in which I do not
Exist, and how little space I occupy in
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mcmonkeyplc 35,969 posts
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Registered 10 years agoI'm about to turn 30...I think it's time I panic.
/panic wankCome and get it cumslingers!
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LionheartDJH 18,725 posts
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Registered 3 years agoGoogle imaging Miranda Hart again mcm?
@Zom, I think you need to take on board the lessons from the mistakes of your last relationship, i.e. that being paranoid etc. will push someone away from you which is exactly what you're trying to avoid. You need to treat women individually and not lump them all together; if one doesn't give you a reason to doubt them/be suspicious then why should you be? Just because a few girls in the past cheated on you doesn't mean all will.A wise man told me don't argue with fools
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Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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Registered 9 years agoThanks Lionel.
The irony of my being so scared of losing someone directly caused me to drive them away isn't lost on me.
I know you're right, of course. But I'm (well, compared to how I was 3 weeks ago) in a rational place rate now. It's finding a way to stop me derailing in the future. In those times, I don't often feel in control of my own mind or actions. Which, when put like that, is a frankly terrifying concept. -
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Registered 7 years agoGraveland wrote:
It should give you a low opinion of the women you date, not of women overall. A respectable women would kick you to the curb for acting like that.
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Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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Registered 9 years ago27. 28 in two weeks. -
Deckard1 19,079 posts
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Registered 4 years agoWoooa you better do what he says zom, sounds like he means business -
Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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Trafford 4,142 posts
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Registered 5 years agoZomoniac wrote:
I used to be a paranoid wreck around women.
27. 28 in two weeks.
Then I carried on a bit like Graveland described.
Then at 28 I met the current Mrs T.
I wouldn't worry mate, just learn from your mistakes and move on.
Having said that, 13 years later, I might be using this thread more in the future
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Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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Registered 9 years agoThat sounds a tad ominous :-/
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Registered 4 years agoUh oh, that sounds pretty bad zom, better just get on with it eh. -
Zomoniac 6,317 posts
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BinaryBob101 21,180 posts
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Registered 4 years ago28? You've got time on your side then.
Just relax and it'll happen naturally eventually.
It's not like your as old as sport!Goose fat is sponsored by:
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Aargh. 11,342 posts
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rivuzu 275 posts
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Registered 6 years agoI guess I'm still in the honeymoon phase, but I've been with my current lass for nearly two years now. Before then, I hadn't seen anyone for two years again, but because my previous passed away.
The last year of being single I wasn't even looking for anything, and then the typical boy meets girl shit happened. Don't give up hope chap, there's plenty of girls in the sea.
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neilka 12,523 posts
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Registered 8 years agoDon't murder user revan8, she's too lovely to die.EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE FINE
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Zomoniac wrote:
If that last sentence is on your match profile, I'd think about deleting it. Just comes across as a bit Fred west, that's all.glaeken wrote:
I haven't been desperate for ages. Yes, I was, for a long time, which as you say probably paid a large part in getting so many very needy girls. For about a year now I've been fairly carefree and enjoying single life instead of panicking I would never find anyone, which is probably how I was able to end up with a really great girl. It was just the mental kicking in that was the problem. I know I've been very desperate on here before but not for a good long while, it's just the slight tendency towards insanity that's the issue.
I think Zom's problem is they come across as desperate and a bit mental and that is just via the medium of text. Face to face I can only imagine the effect is amplified.
So you need to stop being desperate and mental.
Have you thought about using prostitutes? You could maybe shag the desperation out of yourself with meaningless paid for sex?
As for the mental that is more tricky. Maybe if it's not offset by desperation it won't be quite so bad.Support the Mowgli Dirty Protest!
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