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  • Fake_Blood 6 Oct 2017 09:24:38 7,653 posts
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    Condolences pk. You really made a difference for her when it counted. You are a beautiful human being pk.
  • askew 6 Oct 2017 09:25:35 15,425 posts
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    Hugs to you and your family.
  • Dougs 6 Oct 2017 09:26:28 83,500 posts
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    So sorry PK. You were an absolute rock and made the last few months much better for her than they might otherwise have been. Look after yourself, make sure you get support and help so you can grieve properly. :(
  • JonFE 6 Oct 2017 09:54:31 1,749 posts
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    pk1980, I opened this thread with a heavy heart, fearing of what I might read and still wasn't ready to read your very sad news. So sorry for your loss :cry:

    Edited by JonFE at 09:55:15 06-10-2017
  • Addy_B 6 Oct 2017 09:59:13 1,073 posts
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    Really sorry for your loss mate. You have been a rock. Thoughts are with you and your family. Take care.
  • the_milkybar_kid 6 Oct 2017 10:00:38 5,903 posts
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    Life works in mysterious ways. So sorry to hear your news PK. You deserve a knighthood after everything you've been through over the last few months and I'm sure you made Rachel extremely happy even through the hardships you've both endured. I didn't see your last update of your proposal so I can't imagine how hard that must be.

    Please look after yourself and don't be afraid to lean on others. Even here. This boards been very good to me in times of confusion or grief.

    Edited by the_milkybar_kid at 10:06:56 06-10-2017
  • JamboWayOh 6 Oct 2017 10:12:51 2,464 posts
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    So sorry to hear about this PK, please don't deny yourself the chance to grieve mate. Please take care and look after yourself.
  • boo 6 Oct 2017 10:57:42 13,284 posts
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    Sometimes I just fail to understand life. So sorry, pk. For what little it's worth, you have a whole bunch of 'weird internet friends' ( (c) Mrs Boo) who are sending you their best, and wishing Rachel peace wherever she is now.

    You've made more of a difference in this world than most people will in a lifetime. Remember the good stuff, forget about the rubbish and know that you loved each other and that's all that counts.

    Stay strong.
  • THFourteen 6 Oct 2017 13:24:40 45,760 posts
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    @boo

    How are you doing boo?
  • Psiloc 6 Oct 2017 13:35:50 4,054 posts
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    God damn. Tearing up at work.

    /pretends to tie laces
  • boo 6 Oct 2017 14:05:07 13,284 posts
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    I'm ok, thanks mate. What's going on with PK puts things into perspective.
    Had to go in this morning to have a camera poked where no camera should ever go, as they wanted to rule out bladder cancer. It now feels like I'm peeing razor blades, but they assure me it'll pass.

    But otherwise, things have progressed at an astounding rate. I was due to go in and have the prostate out on Nov 2nd, but it's been moved up to the week after next.
  • Frogofdoom 6 Oct 2017 14:07:35 5,957 posts
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    Good luck Boo

    Horrible news PK, look after yourself mate :(
  • JamboWayOh 6 Oct 2017 14:09:19 2,464 posts
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    boo wrote:
    I'm ok, thanks mate. What's going on with PK puts things into perspective.
    Had to go in this morning to have a camera poked where no camera should ever go, as they wanted to rule out bladder cancer. It now feels like I'm peeing razor blades, but they assure me it'll pass.

    But otherwise, things have progressed at an astounding rate. I was due to go in and have the prostate out on Nov 2nd, but it's been moved up to the week after next.
    Good luck man. I've got my first post treatment checkup this month and I'm bricking it inside through fear of the cancer reoccurring.
  • boo 6 Oct 2017 15:12:49 13,284 posts
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    Fingers crossed for a good result, Jambo!
  • boo 6 Oct 2017 15:13:49 13,284 posts
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    Is that racist? "Jambo" sounds slightly racist.
    No racism intended!
    ;o)
  • CosmicFuzz 6 Oct 2017 15:17:00 31,996 posts
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    Shit, so sorry to hear that pk :(
  • JamboWayOh 6 Oct 2017 15:21:03 2,464 posts
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    boo wrote:
    Is that racist? "Jambo" sounds slightly racist.
    No racism intended!
    ;o)
    That's a first. Well it is my real word nickname. Cheers though for the support.
  • Khanivor 6 Oct 2017 15:33:43 43,299 posts
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    Sad to hear of your loss prawnking. I know the last few months must have been an ordeal of tragic proportions.

    Having been there for a loved ones final months I do know that your love, attention and caring made a huge difference and that now, along with all the memories of better times you’ll have some inner peace knowing that you were there for her when it mattered the most.
  • ChocNut 6 Oct 2017 15:44:32 2,330 posts
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    Fucking hell, rough stuff here. Best of luck to Jambo and boo and I dont even know what to say to pk
  • AceGrace 6 Oct 2017 20:12:26 3,096 posts
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    I don't know what to say other than sorry for your loss. You are a great human being.

    😢
  • mecha-DR 6 Oct 2017 20:21:27 333 posts
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    It's nuts how powerful grief can be too. Probably naive, but I didn't know it could make you literally physically sick :(
  • Murbs 7 Oct 2017 10:16:13 23,654 posts
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    Just read this thread for the first time in a while.don't know what to say pk. Just love and hugs I guess. And to boo - had no idea you were dealing with your own health issues.

    It's been two years since I lost my mum. On the anniversary I was absolutely broken. All it took was opening up Facebook and seeing posts from my sister and aunt and I was in pieces.

    Seriously, FCUTA and love to everyone.
  • drhcnip 7 Oct 2017 11:02:05 5,317 posts
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    shite news, pk, sorry for your loss...:(

    was going to post about mrs hcnip's upcoming first post-op scan but, as boo said above, your experience puts it into persepective...

    fucking fuck cancer....
  • boo 7 Oct 2017 11:05:49 13,284 posts
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    It's all important. Sending some good vibes to Mrs hcnip. Fingers crossed for good news.
  • boo 7 Oct 2017 11:05:50 13,284 posts
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    It's all important. Sending some good vibes to Mrs hcnip. Fingers crossed for good news.
  • drhcnip 7 Oct 2017 13:12:11 5,317 posts
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    @boo

    cheers, pal - no experience of this before so hopefully the 'scanxiety' dies down a bit over time...this'll be the first since the removal of the mothership so it's just hoping there's no little spots showing up...doesn't help that a woman across the road is about 4 months ahead of us, though a different kind of kidney cancer, and her first scan showed dots in a few places....it's very hard to remember sometimes that each is an isolated, individual case....
  • pk1980 8 Oct 2017 16:46:21 780 posts
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    Thank you all for your posts. The last couple of days have been a blur. Even though I knew Friday was coming I have still found it a shock, I have felt numb, lost, just disbelief that it has all happened. It is only today really that everything is hitting me more.

    Thursday night there were a number of people with Rachel family and friends, they told her it was her hen night which pleased her.

    I'm glad she is no longer in pain, I just wish it could have been a few days later, we would have been married Tuesday. As someone said we were married in all but name, at least she knew how much I felt for her and wanted her which is some consolation.

    Again thank you all for your posts.

    Edited by pk1980 at 16:47:33 08-10-2017

    Edited by pk1980 at 17:08:55 08-10-2017
  • JamboWayOh 8 Oct 2017 16:56:57 2,464 posts
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    Hey PK I'm glad you posted back, I'm suitably awful in knowing what to say in times of grief, I obviously don't know you in real life but just from your words you strike me as a man who cared and loved Rachel deeply. The lengths you went to be there for her makes me know she felt loved. I honestly don't know many guys who would go as far as to watching Spongebob in Spanish just to be there for someone. I'm babbling now but don't be a stranger here, we're all arseholes but we're not fucking arseholes and we very much want you to be very much involved in the EG nuthouse.

    Edited by JamboWayOh at 16:58:32 08-10-2017
  • boo 17 Oct 2017 22:55:02 13,284 posts
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    Tomorrow's robotic surgery day. If Skynet could just hold off on the whole rise of the machines thing for 24 hours, that would be most appreciated.
  • JamboWayOh 17 Oct 2017 22:57:54 2,464 posts
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    All the best Boo. Sending good vibes your way that North Korea doesn't decide to malware the NHS again.
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