Sad to say but this is one place I've found to get men's uninhibited opinions on guy/girl stuff. Anywhere else and everyone censors himself.
It is all fine now. I'm ok with him looking at porn (yes, I do it too!). I draw the line at video chatting with other people in a sexual way. I'd like not to be jealous but if you found your girlfriend spending a significant amount of time looking at and lusting over other men you'd probably feel a jealous pang as well. It just depends on how you deal with it... for me, I write all my angsty crap here. It keeps me from saying things to him I will regret.
P.S. I may go by another name when I want to be less emo.