mcmonkeyplc wrote:The last site I was on, I had a 3 month subscription. I wrote messages in bursts. Usually sending out 3, 4 or 5. Then awaiting possible replies.
Mostly this meant either no reply or a standard "not interested" message but I exchanged messages with 3 or 4 women.
Best of all of course is if they contact you first.
But even there, some women would send out a default "I saw your profile, I'm interested" message and when you responded kept Schtumm. Or you exchange 1 or 2 messages and it goes quiet.
So in short, it's a numbers game. Expect a 10% reply rate and out of those maybe a 30-40% chance of getting to a date.
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