There was a discussion about "nice guys" in Sweden last year. Two well known female blogger cut a well known emo blogger down for playing the tired "Why do girls like bad boys?" card.|
It boiled down to "Nice guys" are just creeps. They wan sex but pretend that it's OK to be just friends in the hope that the "bad boy" will horrendously dump the girl making her come crawling to the "nice guy" begging for consolation penis.
They both much preferred the "You are sensationally fit" line of approach.
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