I don't reply with rejections anymore, and I get a few messages a week, maybe one a day if I'm online a lot. Girls can get dozens, hundreds even. Added to that is just what the hell does one say in a rejection message? I stopped doing them myself because someone kept whining at me, asking me "why don't you want to talk to me?!" at first and then constantly sending ever increasingly hysterical messages.
I know I should (possibly) because I know how annoying it is to get nothing, but at the same time, so many people seem to even take a nicely worded rejection really badly. Deep down, I'd probably rather get nothing than a "thanks but no thanks".
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