#6436367, By hobbesthetiger Match.com and Online Dating

  • hobbesthetiger 7 Aug 2010 22:56:31 52 posts
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    From my own (past) experience, the women on such sites often seem to have vert set ideas about what they want and don't want (such as not wanting to date guys with kids etc).

    I had a similar problem as I was divorced - it seemed like a stigma, as if I was somehow a terrible person because I got divorced at a relatively young age. They seemed to imagine either I would be bitter and twisted about it, or that getting divorced was my fault, and that I was incapable of forming proper relationships. In reality, I got divorced because my ex-wife pretty much had a mental break down, then met another guy - hardly my 'fault'.

    So yeah, it can be tough. Good luck to those still trying through these sites though!
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