#5307976, By Zob Match.com and Online Dating

  • Zob 1 Oct 2009 10:59:44 140 posts
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    L_Franko, understand entirely what situation you're in... I split up with the wife 5 weeks ago. Been together over 8 years and married for 5 of them. She'd been having affairs with about 10 people over the last 2 years and I found out about it all in the space of a week. Despite all this, things are civil and largely amicable. She's out of the house and trying to get her head in a better place. I know I'm alright and I've done nothing wrong and that I'll be ok in the future but it doesn't stop everything being terribly dull and not fun.

    I think that occupying yourself constantly right until you go to sleep at night helps. Sure you have to reflect but once you've done all the useful thinking you have to do anything you can to get yourself from going round in circles.
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